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Showing posts with label Help. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

get to know your kids and what they are going through it could save their life



i did not write this article i found on the following site and found it to be relevant . i know how cruel teens can be to one another . my own 2nd cousin recently committed suicide because of bullying in his high school by other teens . 


so i urge you to please read this and talk to your family members , they may surprise you . it may be the most important thing you today . i'm telling the pain of talking to them i minor compared to the pain of burying a child .


     http://psychcentral.com/news/2012/02/14/weight-and-body-image-program-helps-teen-girls/34810.html
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also check out these :
http://psychcentral.com/news/2012/02/10/depressed-adolescents-more-likely-to-be-bullied/34643.html
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/weightless/2012/02/body-image-booster-steps-to-self-love/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/moody-marriage/2012/02/rapid-cycling-bipolar-or-just-moody/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/creative-mind/2012/02/playing-video-games-and-your-creative-mind/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/therapy-soup/2012/02/broken-hearts-all-around-divorce-and-revenge/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/bounce-back/2012/02/4-things-to-remember-when-you-cant-take-it-anymore/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/addiction-recovery/2012/02/prescribing-drugs-known-addicts/
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/02/02/6-ways-to-tell-your-kids-youre-divorcing/
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/02/13/dancing-with-angels-art-from-the-darkness-and-the-light/
http://psychcentral.com/news/2012/02/13/is-9-hours-of-sleep-too-much-for-teens/34768.html

Weight and Body Image Program Helps Teen Girls

By RICK NAUERT PHD Senior News Editor
Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on February 14, 2012

Researchers report success in a primary care-directed weight management program designed specifically for teenage girls.
Results from the six-month program included less weight gain, improved body image, less consumption of fast food and more participation in family meals. The program included weekly peer meetings, consultations with primary care providers and separate meetings for parents.
Kaiser Permanente researchers have published their results online in the journal Pediatrics.
Experts say the study is the first to report long-term results from a weight management program designed specifically for teenage girls.
Most other programs have included younger children and interventions focused on the entire family. This program included separate meetings for parents with the rationale that teens are motivated more by peer acceptance than parental influence.
The study is also unique in that it was conducted in a primary-care setting, rather than an academic or specialty-care environment.
“Nearly one-third of teenage girls are overweight or obese, and many of them are likely to become obese adults,” said Lynn DeBar, Ph.D., M.P.H., lead author and senior investigator with the Kaiser Permanente Center for Health Research.
“Our study shows that intervention programs can help these girls achieve long-term success managing their weight and also learning new habits that will hopefully carry over into their adult life.”
“Many teenage girls are still growing taller, so for them, maintaining weight or slowing weight gain is an acceptable goal,” said Phil Wu, M.D., a pediatrician who leads Kaiser Permanente’s effort to prevent and treat childhood obesity and is also a co-author of the study.
“Girls in the program gained less weight than those who weren’t in the program, and they reduced their overall body mass index, improved their self-image and developed healthy lifestyle habits, so all of these are successes.”
Researchers followed 208 girls, ages 12-17. All of the girls were classified as overweight or obese, according to standards set by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention standards.
Half of the girls were assigned to the intervention group and half to usual care.
Girls in the intervention group met weekly with their peers and a behavioral counselor during the first three months, and then every other week during months four and six.
The girls were weighed and asked to keep a food and activity diary, which they discussed during each meeting. The program focused on decreasing portion size, limiting consumption of energy-rich foods, establishing regular meal patterns, substituting water for sugar-sweetened beverages, reducing fast food, increasing fruit and vegetable consumption, and having more family meals.
A significant exercise prescription was delivered with girls encouraged to exercise at least five days a week for 30-60 minutes. Moreover, screen time was to be limited to two hours a day.
Participants also received yoga instruction, and a physical-activity video game to use at home. Discussion topics included ways to avoid disordered eating, coping with family and peer teasing and developing strategies to combat negative self-talk.
An important part of the problem included parental education on support for their daughters. This weekly meeting was not held in the presence of the daughters.
Health care providers received summaries of the girls’ current health habits, including meal and physical activity patterns. After receiving training in motivational techniques, the providers met with the girls at the beginning of the study to help them choose one or two behaviors to work on.
The providers had a second visit with the girls at the end of the six-month intervention to check their progress.
Girls assigned to the usual-care group received a packet of materials that included a list of online reading about lifestyle changes. They also met with their primary care provider at the beginning of the study, but the providers were not given health habit summaries for these girls.
Both groups had health assessments and lab tests at the beginning of the study, at six months, and then again at 12 months. The girls started out with an average weight in the 190 lb. range, and an average body mass index in the 97th percentile, which by CDC standards is considered to be obese.
At the end of the study, girls who participated in the program were in the 95th percentile, while girls in the usual-care group were in the 96th percentile.
Researchers say the weight changes were statistically significant but modest compared to some other weight loss interventions.
They point out that the girls were severely obese to begin with and possibly treatment-resistant due to previous involvement in other weight loss programs.
A salient feature of the program was a de-emphasis on calorie counting, focusing instead on lifestyle changes. However, researchers acknowledge that this approach may have produced more modest weight changes than they had expected.
This study is part of ongoing Kaiser Permanente research into weight loss. Previous studies include:
  • A Kaiser Permanente Center for Health Research study published in the International Journal of Obesity in 2011 found that people trying to lose at least 10 pounds were more likely to reach that goal if they had lower stress levels and slept more than six hours, but not more than eight hours, a night.
  • Another Kaiser Permanente Center for Health Research study published in 2010 found that the more people logged on to an interactive weight management website, the more weight they kept off.
  • Researchers at the Kaiser Permanente Center for Health Research also reported in a 2008 study that keeping a food diary can double a person’s weight loss and that both personal contact and Web-based support can help with long-term weight management.




p.s. 
     take the same amount of time out of you day to hug , kiss , and tell them that you love them and care about what goes on in the lives several times a week . and share your world with them and share in their world ; you only get 1 chance there are no do over here .
     and remember to tell the are worth while and important , that not ever one will like them , that normal to feel sad/depressed at times . and that they can talk to family when time get tough . 

thank you to all who worked on this article and all who helped bring this to the public . 

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

cell fone's , web service through your fone

i have been surfing wlan's  and how you can connect your lap top to web service useing your sell fone with some feature's on some of them

i 1st got news of this through tv ads . and though about useing my devices blue tooth features so i could use the 2 together to get on the web when i was some place i had cell service but no wifi  ; i mean why not you can do this with a wire less intermet jack for pc's .

if you know some thing about this topic , please help  with  the info. you have .... be expansive so it's easily understood and can be done by even the most novice's of people . include the best resource's you know

thank's        

Thursday, January 12, 2012

ProConnectSubscribe to Experts BlogNEXT POST: You Cheated - She Found ... He Cheated - You Know - Now What Are You Going to Do? By Dr. Erica Goodstone posted Feb 14th 2011 11:50PM

why is it allways he did it ... hes to blame ... men are more likely to be cheating/cheaters... ???!!!...

i have been the one cheated on in all my relationships by HER ...!!!...

and these SO CALLED EXPERTS are full SHIT ... !!!

history has been the expert here , and historically the ladys are the highest percential  of cheats in a relationship ...
they are more prone to pick one man to be the provider/man who raises their progeny and some different male  to be the genetic father of their progeny  .

i have never cheat on any women i was in a relationship with , and know many other guys in the same modality/behavior . i look and but so do the ladys (as the grand father always said ,and i quote " any one who says they don't look is ether a lier so dead , be he man or women , but i don't touch ") this is one of truest sentiment's/facts  i have ever come across .

so put that in your pipe and smoke it . if you can  you can be honest long enoff  to be honest with your self if no one else !!!...!!!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

freedom

                                                           Wake Up AMERICA

it make me sick to here the news and who Americana talk about passing or making law to do for them what they are too dammed soft to do for them selves . what w\has happened to this country ??????????


A) law is to protect us cooperation's and foreign threats not from the our selves or the american citizenry .


B) law is the strongest tool of those that enslavement . it give them the powers to limit and eliminate freedoms


C) it's no exaggeration to say as much as 90% of all USA LAWS do mainly 1 thing , which can be boiled down to doing in effect doing mainly 1 thing ... they take away the freedoms Americans fought for all Americans in the revolutionary war .


D) the people in public office have many obligations to the american citizenry .... i will list some of the primary ones ...
     1) most importantly ,   they stop any and all laws the take freedoms from US citizens .
          a) seat belt laws ( it is our right to choose weather or  not we wear seat belts not Gov't or law )
          b) reasonable suspicion laws ( ect. we are free and as such there is no reason to violate us in this way ,  
              POLICE should be PEACE OFFICERS not MILITANT'S or enforcers of laws that violate
              citizens freedoms)
          c) public office positions are for the all american citizens with average skills to serves Americans , not
              just those with a closed set of training/education (ect. lawyer's , college educated persons , those
              who study law/Gov't ) AND FURTHER MORE these offices where not meant to be occupied by
              as an anointment or life long position )
    2) see to it the no laws or bills are passed if 1 or more riders are attached to them . if they can not pass on
         their own , then they have no place being legislated in any way at all .
    3) stop lobbies and lobbing from from subjecting the American people and too inform the american people
        all their activities
    4) open office hours for the constituents so the people can voice their opinion's and open community
        meetings all citizens can attend and speak at .


BEING FREE PEOPLE IN A FREE  SOCIETY MEANS LIVE WITH THE DANGERS FREEDOM INCLUDES .


NOT ALLOWING , MAKING LAWS , OR ANY OTHER THING THAT TAKES AWAY OTHER CITIZENS FREEDOMS FOR THE SACK OF SAFETY AND/OR A SAFE WAY OF LIFE ENFORCED BY LAWS OR ENFORCERS OF LAWS ON OTHER CITIZENS , SO YOU CAN FEEL SAFE OR BE PROTECTED BY GOVERNMENT AND IT'S POLICING AGENCY .THIS IS PART OF EVER CITIZENS OBLIGATIONS AS A MEMBER OF A FREE SOCIETY .


NOT FORCING OTHER CITIZENS TO LIVE THEIR LIVES AS YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE , OR TO FOLLOW YOUR RELIGIOUS CHOOSES .




this having been said


i put it all american citizens that in the world of today


american's are not free


american of today are slaves to the Gov't , Illegal  laws ,  our elected officials , and all appointed offices .


the reasons are simple .


people have chosen safety over freedom


AND THIS IS WRONG , IT FORCE ME , YOU AND ALL AMERICANS TO LIVE BY THE WANTS AND FEARS , AND WAYS , AND BELIEFS .